Sunday, December 22, 2024

Arsene is definitely in the wrong

He can do it!

He can do it!

Arsene Wenger has won me over in the past couple of seasons. I have always admired his ability and watched with delight at the pure poetry his teams have produced on the pitch at times. However for many years I found him to be graceless in defeat and incredibly annoying with his condemnation of opposition players and blind to the wrong-doings of his own.

Graceless

I thought he was over all that but Wednesday evening showed that the graceless man I used to dislike is still in there somewhere.

Not for the first time, Wenger refused to shake hands with the opposition manager after he had seen his team defeated. Manchester City boss Mark Hughes and Wenger had been involved in a heated exchange in the first half of the game, and they have had a history of not exactly seeing eye to eye.

At the end of the game Hughes turned to find Wenger in order to shake hands but Wenger made himself conspicuous by his absence.

Hughes was less than impressed,

“Maybe he’s used to winning games and when he does lose sometimes he doesn’t know how to behave. At one point I was over on his side of the technical area and he seemed to be a bit aggrieved by that. But I think he is probably more aggrieved because he got beaten. I have been to the Emirates Stadium and been beaten 6-2 but I still offered my hand at the end. It is the least you can do. I am a little bit disappointed in that respect. You should be a bit more gracious than that because it is unnecessary. We all hurt when we get beaten, but you should always offer your hand.”

Wenger simply said,

“I think I have nothing to say. I am free to shake hands with whom I want after the game.”

I am afraid that Arsene Wenger is totally in the wrong on this matter. As a manager of a small local league side in England I have signed a code of conduct, as have all of my players, in line with the FA respect agenda. It is a simple set of rules that we agree to abide by to ensure that behaviour is maintained and everyone is treated with respect.

Code

One of the rules in the code of conduct is that at the end of every game you will shake hands with the opposition players, manager and staff and with the referee. That is right and proper and simply a matter of respect and common courtesy.

By saying that he can choose who he shakes hands with and who he doesn’t, Wenger is being totally disrespectful and is flying in the face of the good work that the FA are trying to do at the grassroots level of the game.

Spoilt

I think Wenger should grow up in this regard and stop behaving like a spoilt child. In order not to undermine everything that is trying to be done to restore respect in the game Mr Wenger needs to say that he was in the wrong and needs to shake hands with his opposite number whatever happens in the game. If local league managers can do it, I’m sure that Premier League managers can do it as well.

Come on Arsene, stop being silly.

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Graham Fisher


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  • gooner-11

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    Yes, I did, watching the match and seeing Hughes go for him abit as he walked down the tunnel and then sarcastically throw his hands up, I though ‘Aw man, why does he have to be like that?’ – probably because of the ridicule I would (and did) surely get by my saturday afternoon drop in football crew…
    But then, after reading that interview he did about it, my opinion changed, I would agree that behavior is more important.

    That’s funny about Hughes spying, I read somehting also but couldn’t find it back either…

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    Hey Gooner – not sure if I understand you correctly – did you have a problem with Wenger on this one?

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    haha…I love Wenger’s choice of words…very articulate man. I’m waiting for Wenger’s book on Football Poetry to be released.

    I see where Wenger’s coming from and still think he’s free to shake hands with whomever he wants…if the gesture is purely ceremonial, then it is meaningless, and it should be recognized as such. Are we so enslaved by the ceremony that we disregard the meaning behind it?

    A handshake is a sign of respect, trust, reliability and partnership. I assume these two do not display any of this towards each other…or maybe they do not display it in the way they would like to see it. Either way though, this is a game – both managers need to get rid of the chip on the shoulder and not take the whole issue personally.

    As far as the ceremonial handshake…just scrap it…if there is no code of ethics among managers then why pretend that there is?

    This reminds me of my pet-peeve about the sneeze…why do I have to say ‘bless you’ after you sneeze? I’m not blessing you and you don’t need to be blessed b/c you sneezed…you should just excuse yourself and carry on…don’t look at me weird when I don’t bless you…I should be looking at you weirdly for wanting to be blessed! I wonder who’s been blessing that girl recently that’s been sneezing constantly for 5 months (google it)? That’s what I thought – meaningless.

  • gooner-11

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    I’d have agreed until I read this (from Arsenal’s website):

    “I think sometimes in England that you feel that the ceremonial is more important than the real thing,” said Wenger. “For example in this case, I am the only one who is questioned. I am here for 13 years, nobody wonders why did I react like that and [I am criticised],just because I did not respect the ceremonial. That means you can say what you want, insult everybody, but if at the end of the game you do what is [demanded] you are perfect. That is sometimes the case in England and I feel the ceremonial is important but it’s not the most important. The most important is how you behave. I will [shake a manager’s hand] when people behave properly, but I am not a slave of the ceremonial. I have my freedom and like you, I have my views.”

    I do agree with CFC Fan about liking the rivalry though!

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    I thought I read somewhere that Hughes was spying but I can’t find the article now…

    I think Wenger should be excused for any ill feelings towards Hughes this season…Hughes knows how to push Wenger’s buttons now and he sure seems to be doing so…

    I’m liking this rivalry though…I only hope City can keep up the competition in the years to come.

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    I thought I read somewhere that Hughes was spying but I can’t find the article now…

    I think Wenger should be excused for any ill feelings towards Hughes this season…Hughes knows how to push Wenger’s buttons now and he sure seems to be doing so…

    I’m liking this rivalry though…I only hope City can keep up the competition in the years to come.

  • gooner-11

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    I’d have agreed until I read this (from Arsenal’s website):

    “I think sometimes in England that you feel that the ceremonial is more important than the real thing,” said Wenger. “For example in this case, I am the only one who is questioned. I am here for 13 years, nobody wonders why did I react like that and [I am criticised],just because I did not respect the ceremonial. That means you can say what you want, insult everybody, but if at the end of the game you do what is [demanded] you are perfect. That is sometimes the case in England and I feel the ceremonial is important but it’s not the most important. The most important is how you behave. I will [shake a manager’s hand] when people behave properly, but I am not a slave of the ceremonial. I have my freedom and like you, I have my views.”

    I do agree with CFC Fan about liking the rivalry though!

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    haha…I love Wenger’s choice of words…very articulate man. I’m waiting for Wenger’s book on Football Poetry to be released.

    I see where Wenger’s coming from and still think he’s free to shake hands with whomever he wants…if the gesture is purely ceremonial, then it is meaningless, and it should be recognized as such. Are we so enslaved by the ceremony that we disregard the meaning behind it?

    A handshake is a sign of respect, trust, reliability and partnership. I assume these two do not display any of this towards each other…or maybe they do not display it in the way they would like to see it. Either way though, this is a game – both managers need to get rid of the chip on the shoulder and not take the whole issue personally.

    As far as the ceremonial handshake…just scrap it…if there is no code of ethics among managers then why pretend that there is?

    This reminds me of my pet-peeve about the sneeze…why do I have to say ‘bless you’ after you sneeze? I’m not blessing you and you don’t need to be blessed b/c you sneezed…you should just excuse yourself and carry on…don’t look at me weird when I don’t bless you…I should be looking at you weirdly for wanting to be blessed! I wonder who’s been blessing that girl recently that’s been sneezing constantly for 5 months (google it)? That’s what I thought – meaningless.

  • Chelsea FC Fan

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    Hey Gooner – not sure if I understand you correctly – did you have a problem with Wenger on this one?

  • gooner-11

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    Yes, I did, watching the match and seeing Hughes go for him abit as he walked down the tunnel and then sarcastically throw his hands up, I though ‘Aw man, why does he have to be like that?’ – probably because of the ridicule I would (and did) surely get by my saturday afternoon drop in football crew…
    But then, after reading that interview he did about it, my opinion changed, I would agree that behavior is more important.

    That’s funny about Hughes spying, I read somehting also but couldn’t find it back either…

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